Barry Solem
Obituary
Barry was born on May 4, 1939, in
Spokane, Washington, to Sam and Roberta Solem. He lived a life marked by faith,
joy and purpose until he went home to be with the Lord on February 3, 2026, in
Edmonds, WA.
He often recounted days of growing up
in Spokane and how fortunate he and his sister Bobbie were to have such loving
parents. Their home was filled with music and The Word of God. They grew up in
the church where Barry occasionally played his clarinet and sang. His dad was his hero. He graduated from North
Central High School in 1958 and later moved west where he attended Seattle
Pacific College. He then got his MBA
from the University of Pennsylvania, Wharton School of Business. While he
valued education, he valued the friends he made during those years even more. He
genuinely loved people.
After grad school, Barry began his
career at RCA on the East Coast. During that time, he lived with the Luce
family, who became lifelong friends. After returning to Seattle, he joined
Boeing, where he spent more than 30 years in a variety of roles, including
Operations Research and Boeing Computer Services, before retiring at the age of
55.
During his early days at Boeing, Barry
met Karen Anderson. Married in 1967, they had two girls, Stephanie and Jill,
and over the years they enjoyed many family events, trips and traditions. Their
annual week at Cannon Beach Christian Conference Center grew to include all six
of their grandchildren and was a favorite event for the entire family.
Following retirement, he volunteered
to help a friend, Richard Steegstra, who owned Ballard Technology, eventually
signing on as an employee and part owner until he retired a second time in 2012.
Barry loved to work with his hands and
had a deep appreciation for architecture. He took great pride in helping design
and build two homes, finding joy in creating spaces that were both beautiful
and lasting.
Perhaps Barry’s most rewarding years
were after his work-life ended. He and Karen wintered in Palm Desert where they
spent time with lifelong friends and he was part of Teleios, a men’s Bible
Study. Other highlights were traveling to Israel and China.
Barry invested in numerous ministries that
shared the love of Jesus. Passionate about Christian education and indigenous
missionaries, he was involved in supporting AIM International (Assisting
Indigenous Ministries), HEED Uganda, Schools for Africa and Big Table. Barry is
now in the presence of the Lord he loved and joyfully served, filled with gratitude
for the life God allowed him to live and for the many people who impacted his
life.
Barry is survived by his devoted bride
of 58 years, Karen Anderson Solem; his daughters, Stephanie Solem Evans (Erik)
and Jill Solem Andrews (Mike); and six grandchildren—Sydney, Kate, and Drew
Evans; Ava Sharpe; and Eli and Mae Dreon. He is also survived by his sister,
Bobbie Solem Nicholson (Rod); brother-in-law Steve Anderson (Myrna); nieces
Kristin Anderson and Michelle Nicholson Jensen; nephews Mark Anderson and Barry
Nicholson; and a host of friends.
Memorial will be on March 17 at 4pm at
Chapel of the Resurrection on Cedar Park School/Church campus, 16300 112th
Ave NE, Bothell, WA 98011.
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Mei and Jang Wu
(Posted: March 10, 2026)
Barry was such an encouragement to us in so many ways as our condo neighbor. When we think of Barry, we remember his consistently joyful smile and positive attitude. We deeply treasured our precious times of prayer before afternoon tea, encouraging moments of fellowship together, and all the fun we had playing games with Barry and Karen. Barry's testimony, faith, and life together with Karen will forever be an encouragement to us and we are so thankful for them both. Our prayers for peace and comfort are with Karen. May God bless you and keep you in every way. -
Sarla Mahara
(Posted: March 09, 2026)
Barry Solem was a rare soul who lived his faith with an uncommon clarity and purpose. To me Barry was much more than a dear friend. He was a mentor, a father figure and cornerstone of AIM International, a Charlottesville, VA based ministry founded in 2015 that I have the honor of managing. AIM would not be where it is today without Barry’s unwavering support and guidance. It was Barry who gave me the courage to step out in faith and the wise counsel to navigate the challenges of establishing AIM International. He believed in this vision long before it was a reality, offering not only his financial support but his heart, prayers, and time. While we mourn his immense loss, I find peace in knowing that his journey here was marked by a life poured out for others and for building God’s Kingdom. To honor Barry’s memory, AIM International will continue to operate as a living legacy and a true testament to his unwavering faith. Rest well, Barry. "Well done, good and faithful servant." - Matthew 25:23 Thank you for showing us what a life of purpose and faith looks like. -
Jonna Axelson
(Posted: March 08, 2026)
My first memory of Barry was the musical Solem family, playing violin, cello, clarinet and piano. Gorgeous music, arranged by Sam. Barry was one who kept track of his friends from the cradle to the grave. The best part was when he became family by marrying Karen. His warm smile and faithful service will be missed by all who know knew him. Comfort, peace and love to Karen and your extended family. May you be carried in the palm of God's hand! -
Kristi Lin
(Posted: March 06, 2026)
Barry was a beautiful testimony of God’s Love. ❤️🙏🏼 - Leave a Comment